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So there were LGBT rallies/protests/marches/whatever people are labeling them as yesterday. Now there are discussions about whether the Community (of LGBT and allies) should do such things or should do work which makes them look nice and safe and makes friends. I think there are interesting things being said on both sides (

artaxastra's original post is here and

telesilla's post here. I'll link to other big ones as I see them, but the comments of both also have discussion.)

I don't know that I agree with

artaxastra, but I think she has presented some things to talk about. However, I think there's a major problem with the fact she compares the Community's actions to the KKK's protests.

She was called out on this by a number of people, and someone else commented that people were misjudging her/misinterpreting what she was trying to say. So in this thread, I made this comment in response:

a_nightengale
Oh FFS, no, she isn't. She was talking about how people's react to protests. What part of:

Protests cause people to solidify their opposition and inspire them to give more money, time and effort to the cause the protesters are protesting. Protests do not convince people that they are wrong. They make them angry, frustrated, enraged or frightened.

don't you understand? If it makes it easier, instead of KKK substitute NRA or NARAL.

Me
don't you understand? If it makes it easier, instead of KKK substitute NRA or NARAL.

If those substitutions work just as well, why aren't they in the original post instead of something which does stir people's blood and put them on the defensive from the beginning? Especially in a post about making friends instead of putting people on the defensive or angering them, etc.

I think she has some interesting points, especially about the other work that should be done, though I think that work can and should be done in addition to the rallies/protests/whatever they're being labeled. However, I think a lot of that is getting lost in the fact that people are interpreting the KKK comparison/analogy/reference/whatever as an attack on them.

Obviously, I don't know what she intended, and I don't give a lot of weight to authorial intent, because no matter what she intended, the effect is to do pretty much exactly the same thing she is advising against.

Comparing activities to the KKK, however distant you (and, based on your interpretation, she) thinks it is from an actual comparison, does not convince people they are wrong. It makes them angry, frustrated, enraged, or frightened.

I also have an issue about the way how in many of her responses,

artaxastra keeps going back to the idea that the Community shouldn't do these things because we need to win friends because of the way California can reject things by popular vote. Which is, perhaps, a valid point, but this is not just about California. The end goal is greater than any one state.

I've seen people I know on both sides of the discussion, and I am really intrigued by their responses. People are saying very smart things, and it is making me consider what I believe about the various options. (On top of discussions I've been having with people here, too.)

I've just found myself a) over-thinking what icon to use and b) freezing with the snow and the low clouds outside. I hate this state. I'm going to have to get up the strength (and warm clothes) to go outside and meet up with people for a writing thing soon, but oh, it's yucky out. Better than it was earlier, though.