Oh that's okay, I'm very absent-minded and I know not everyone friends back right away, or at all, or notices right away. So all is good.

It really is a small place, and while that can be a good thing, way too often it's a bad thing. I'm sorry outside issues have made you have to lock down so tight, I know how frustrated I felt when I had to do so on the other journal.

I do that too, abandon one journal for the other in spurts. Normally it's this one I abandon, but I can feel the personal creeping into this journal all the time. I edit myself a lot, and I kind of hate it.